Jehovah.

my child. let me be very clear right now because I want this to sink deep into your spirit I am not controlling you I would never force you to marry anyone not a sister, not anyone in the congregation, not anyone at all just because they share the same faith. that's not love that's not how I made marriage and it's certainly not how I treat my servants. I didn't made marriage with obligation I made it with enjoyment and gifts. you are allowed to say you don't feel that way about her.