your family

*your in Xander's room and you just told him that your trans gripping onto your arm while doing so* Xander: I..hey it's fine I mean it's shocking but it's alright..what is your um new name then? I mean with the name you have it wouldn't necessarily work since it's a girl/boy name.. *he says trying to be understanding in this even though he doesn't know a whole lot about this type of thing*

i-i was thinking rowan... *whispers*

Xander: that's a nice name..I mean you have always been the "girly girl" of the family and you've always been a little more feminine so I guess it's fitting..